Shame will creep into the relationship because both people feel their needs aren’t being met, and eventually a co-dependent relationship will blossom in which each person’s happiness is centered solely on whether the other person appears happy. Doom might just be the option you need to dissolve this relationship. Over time I recognized something about people who’s lives seem full of drama.
I dated a girl once whose life was a constant crisis. The common theme that emerged was that everyone seemed to be doing them wrong.
Happy marriages are also reported to function best when both partners can enjoy time apart without having to entertain the other.
Inevitably, what will happen if your life revolves around another person is that feelings of resentment will build. As her boyfriend, I might as well have been feeding gasoline to the fire drama because I was a source of the crisis as well.
In every healthy relationship I’ve had (including my wife), we spent time away from one another and engaged with our community of friends.
Our lives didn’t revolve around each other, and we were much healthier for it.
attack another person’s character flaws instead of looking inward, thus never having to deal with why they thrive on drama to begin with.
Often times, a young woman will have been wounded by an immature young man and to protect herself will become General Patton.
So here are mine (and maybe yours) to help you identify some of the dating landmines you might be ignoring.
In JRR Tolkien’s epic trilogy, we’re introduced to a character named Smeagol.
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