He’s just not ready to involve himself in real-time dating with people he may connect with online.
There are a multitude of reasons why this happens, but at the core, he is not ready or able to embark in a substantive relationship, regardless of what his profile says.
Granted, none of this is set in stone, but if you spot more than one of these red flags, BE CAREFUL.
Red Flag #1—Beware of the “Separated” First of all, this isn’t “technically” single and it can be a tar baby of drama at best or an outright-lie-nightmare at the worst.
Red Flag #2—Beware of Profiles with ONE Picture I can already hear the shouting, but believe me, people who are “too shy” to put out more than one picture are likely full of baloney. Frequently people who want to hide their activities will use difficult-to-remember, thus difficult-to-search names.Eyes are also the part of the face most easily recognized by others, regardless of aging, hair color or weight changes. Red Flag #6—Beware the Weekday Dater Meet someone on-line and they seem perfect? You met for a Tuesday cup of coffee and the fireworks crackled? He can’t see you on weekends because he a) has to work b) has to study for some stressful professional exam c) takes care of Great Aunt Ola. If this guy is only available for weekday dating, good chance he’s hiding something…like a girlfriend or wife. Red Flag #7—Beware the Terminal Texter Phone calls matter.Cheaters want to fly below radar, so often their ONE image will be them wearing bad-boy sunglasses or starlet shades. Red Flag #4—Beware of “Commuters” Yes, geography matters. Phone calls during the evening and on weekends are crucial. also happens to be when her husband is home from work. Remember, players and cheaters are juggling a current relationship and the next victim (possibly YOU).Here is the collected consensus of 11 categories of men you might encounter when dating online:1.Just Looking He fantasizes about a beautiful love life or sex life but has too much anxiety to actually let any potential connection leave his protective computer screen.