It takes two to make a relationship work :)I really liked this book. However, I do disagree with some of this book arguments.
In the beginning of the book, the authors show their disagreement with ‘I kissed dating goodbye’ by saying that dating is a good experience for growth regardless of each experience results and impacts.
Relationship is the fuel which makes change and growth possible.
It provides comfort so you can bear the difficulty of change.
If many of your dating experiences have been difficult, Boundaries in Dating could revolutionize the way you handle relationships.
Don't let people step on you, this book will help you realize people that will make relationships particularly hard, when to get out of those, and how to conduct yourself so that you don't become that person.
You will be able to learn a lot more about yourself and can be a better person who is well-rounded and more experienced in relating to other people.
Dating can help you know more about yourself, your character issues and allows you to make a change and achieve personal growth before making a long term commitment to someone.
This book doesn't require you to be able to make a commitment to someone to start dating. However, I think if the person doesn't start dating early –when he’s not ready for a commitment yet- and focus more on personal and spiritual growth, many character flows can be dealt with and healed before even the dating is started which would reduce a lot the dating/relationship problems and issues.
After that, the book starts dealing with dating issues that can happen to anyone, even those who follow ‘I kissed dating goodbye’ principles. This book –still- has lots of wisdom and gives its readers lots of great & precious advises.